Women are often characterized as being heartless bitches when dealing with one another.
Very few women will deny that charge.
They can be cruel, vindictive, pitiless and downright shameless when it comes to one another.
We've all seen it.
I have often wondered why this is so because the most caring, nurturing and loving people I have ever known in my life have been women.
That is why my two best friends on this earth are women.
Well I think I have figured out why.
A recent study by Canadian psychologist Maryanne Fisher concluded that women have been shown to judge each other more harshly when their estrogen levels are high (days 12 to 21 of their menstrual cycle).
"Often women are characterized as being very co-operative and kind-hearted," Fisher says, but "women are indirectly aggressive." In competition a female will not use threats of violence but rather say: "Oh my goodness, look how fat her ankles are!"
Yes I am a man but I am about to tell you something about women.
I know that is very arrogant and presumptuous of me, or in other words, very typically male of me but hear me out.
The problem is not that women are more competitive than men are for the attention of the opposite sex its just that the avenues available for women to compete are far more limited than is the case for men.
God damn, just it hear me out.
The reality is, that in its simplest form, men and women are competing within each of our respective groups for the attention of the most advantageous of the opposite sex.
Men are just as competitive as women it's just that in order to get a woman's attention we can be funnier than the next guy, make more money, be kinder, be smarter, be physically larger, more muscular, show some exceptional talent in something, there are a whole slew of ways we can be competitive with one another.
Bill Gates has about eleventybillion dollars in the bank, that doesn't necessarily mean that he is going to always get the girl. Maybe she is looking for the muscular guy not the rich guy, and sometimes the muscular guy will lose out to the really nice guy.
Understand?
Men are not that fucking generous with our field of play.
With women men have about 7 different positions that they can play.
8 if you add being a nice dresser.
With men, women have about 1.2 and that would be pushing it.
We are pretty much going to go for the prettiest girl was can get. The only way we start considering veering off of that path is if we find ourselves in the "if all else is considered equal" scenario.
For example, you have two women of roughly equal physically appealing attributes, now we start to look at if she is intelligent. Is she funny? Is she a good mother?
Even then if you had two women that would make equally good mothers we are still picking the cuter one of the two.
I offer evidence to my point by imagining the most physically hideous women you can think of, and place her right along side of the most physically beautiful woman you can think of.
Let me know once you have them side by side in your head.
Ok.
Now I am not going to tell you anything about the beautiful girl except what you can see with your own two eyes.
Don't assume she isn't smart, funny, rich, caring, supportive, or talented just because she is beautiful. She could be all of those things. All I am saying is that all you know for sure is that she is so fine you would stick your tongue in her ass.
Ok.
Now look at the physically hideous woman.
She is the most intelligent woman that you have ever met. Who do you choose? Her or the pretty girl?
The pretty girl.
Look at the physically hideous woman again.
She is the funniest woman that you have ever met as well as the most intelligent. Who do you choose? Her or the pretty girl?
Remember, you don't know if the pretty girl isn't funny and intelligent as well.
All you know is that she is beautiful.
The pretty girl.
Yeah, that is what I thought.
You are going to take your chances with the pretty girl.
See, despite the heterofags out there right now that are saying, "No what's in the inside is the most important thing that matters " you know where I am going with this and you know what I am saying is true.
In every situation where we have the choice we pick the cutie.
Always.
Well women aren't like us.
You pick the most hideous guy and place him next to the best looking guy and although it might be rare, there will be situations where the hideous nice guy, or the hideous rich guy, or the hideous funny guy will evolve into a suitable mate in her head and she will pick him over the studly guy.
That doesn't happen with men.
And women know this. If they don't know this consciously they know this subconsciously.
This is the reason for the catty, backstabbing that they suffer upon one another.
Men would be the same way if by law we all had to wear pants with the crotch cut out of them so that our cock and balls were always in full view.
And if women always picked the guy with the biggest cock and balls regardless if he was rich, smart, funny, kind, gentle or supportive, in other words robbing us of any other way to compete for the attention of the most advantageous female we would be just as backstabbing, catty, vindictive and fake with each other as they are with themselves.
We would never pick the guy that came to play basketball with us if his cock was taped to his thigh down at his knees.
Nope.
He can't help it if his cock is 11 inches long. That is how God made him. Just like how many women are out there that are totally gorgeous but they are that way not because of plastic surgery or excessive dieting or working out but just because genetics fell in such a way that she is built like a brick shit house?
And they are catching hell every single day for no other reason that when they walk in the room, the other girls know that they might as well be invisible while she is in the vicinity and so the nails come out and whatever shame they had goes flying out of the window.
That is why women can get along fine until there is a man inserted into the equation.
I knew a girl once that gained like 50 pounds in college just to not be such a threat to every other woman on the planet. She is happier now than she has ever been in her life.
Most women don't have to go through those drastic measures because they aren't that much more attractive than everyone else.
This woman had to put on 50 pounds just to stop having her tires slit.
When women are in "heat" or "prime" to be impregnated, they are more desperate to find the most suitable mate.
That is when they are most likely to want to eliminate the competition.
Unfortunately that is like 21 days a fucking month, 12 months a year.
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